But…But…But…!

But Fat Is An Offensive Term!

Not necessarily.  It can be a neutral descriptor.  Using the term “fat” is a way to normalize it and make it less of an issue.   This is a common use within fat acceptance.

I do use the term “obese” occasionally, mostly to refer to the clinical definition of “obese”.

But You’re Too Fat!

I want to tell the doctor my throat is swollen and inflamed and ask if it’s strep throat and actually get a throat culture or at least a look at my throat instead of a weight loss lecture. I want to tell the doctor I’m persistently fatigued and get tests for anemia and thyroid disease, not a suggestion of antidpressants and weight-loss surgery. I want employers to see my computer science degree and 15 years experience and ask me technical questions, not if I’ve considered going on The Biggest Loser.
I realize it’s a stretch to consider a fat person might actually be a human being, but that’s what I am. The problem is that many people figure fat people are just fat, not people.

I am what many, many people regard as “too fat”.  The biases about fat and health mean that I have to hunt for doctors who will not just tell me to go away until I lose weight.   It means that employers will often be less inclined to hire me than a thin person.   There are those who assume a 400lb person can’t walk or be loved or hold down a job.

I realize it’s a stretch to consider a fat person might actually be a human being, but that’s what I am.   The problem is that many people figure fat people are not “really” people, or at least don’t deserve to be treated like people.

But Fat Impacts Your Health!

Not necessarily.   Fat is often used as a shorthand for “sedentary”, and thin is often used as a shorthand for “healthy”.   However, research shows that:

  • There are researchers who propose that focusing on exercise and intuitive eating is healthier than attempting to become thin. This approach is called “Health At Every Size” (HAES).   A study comparing the “Health At Every Size” (HAES) approach with a traditional diet found that the HAES group had better health results and less incidence of depression and low self-esteam than the diet group.

This does not mean that every person who advocates fat acceptance is “healthy” (whatever that means) or advocates HAES or practices HAES.   It means that fatness doesn’t tell you whether someone is healthy or not.  Kind of like how someone who’s thin may not be healthy or not.

But You Need To Just Lose Weight!

Every time I dieted I ended up fatter.   Not dieting means I don’t gain weight.  And it’s not just me.

“The majority of people — up to two thirds — regained all the weight they had lost, plus more … several studies indicated that dieting was actually a consistent predictor of future weight gain.” — UCLA

  • The body doesn’t know the difference between dieting and starvation; dieting can cause fatigue, depression, and is the primary precursor to eating disorders (PDF).

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results - attr. Albert Einstein

  • Other research agrees that large, significant, permanent weight loss through diet and exercise is rare.  Weight gain can be more permanent, but again, smaller gains are more likely to be permanent than large ones.

But Diet Companies Wouldn’t Make Money If Diets Didn’t Work!

  • Diet programs benefit from the (often temporary) success of diets.  As noted in Medicare’s Search for Effective Obesity Treatments: Diets Are Not the Answer, most people diet to lose weight and then regain.  A significant subset then go on a new diet, regain, try another new diet, and so on.  Someone may do Weight Watchers, then NutriSystem, then Jenny Craig, then Weight Watchers again.  Who’s making money in this situation?
  • Ever notice how weight loss ads extolling how someone lost 40 or 50 or 60lbs will include a note “Results not typical”? There’s a reason for that.
  • New York Times reporter Gina Kolata wrote in Ultimate Fitness: The Quest for Truth about Health and Exercise that news agencies receive hundreds of press releases a week from diet programs, authors, and researchers.  Most have something to sell.  Weight loss is a terrific product to sell, because it’s so often temporary.

But You Post About Exercise!

I do exercise, but it’s for my own selfish reasons not weight loss or gain.

But Nobody Else Talks About This So It’s Bunk!

Book Cover with link to Amazon

Research:

Blog Posts:

  • Shapely Prose FAQ.

Books:

  • Lessons From The Fat-o-Sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body by Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby
    Focused on how to start accepting your body the way it is and live a healthy, happy life now.
    Kate Harding -0- Marianne Kirby -o- Available from Amazon -0- My review is here.

But Where’s My Comment!

First-time comments go in the moderation queue.  Sometimes I’m not at the computer and it can take a while for me to approve them.

I do moderate out comments that push weight-loss programs, weight-loss surgery, and general spam.  I also moderate out rudeness and general fat bashing.

14 Responses

  1. Hi! I just stumbled upon your blog. I am currently working on my thesis in Communication Studies– Blogs being consciousness raising vehicles for social movements and focusing on FA. I am really enjoying your blog and all the info that is in it as well as it came up in the top 5 of my google search for HAES plan (I wanted to explain to a few friends HAES without having to order Bacon’s book for them or giving up my copy). Thanks for helping me to prove my hypothesis as correct and keep up the great and wonderful work you are doing here!!

    Gin Merritt

  2. I haven’t read your entire blog, so ’scuse me if you’ve covered this, but in conjunction with exercise, an annual physical is highly recommended. I’ve had one every year since I turned 30 (I’m 44), and just this year, it caught my high blood pressure, which we easily controlled with cheap meds. it’s good to see you exercise. Being healthy isn’t always about being skinny, this you are right on in my opinion, fat gathers everywhere, so be on top of any damage it can cause ya ok?

    And you’re dead-on about dieting. Weight loss is about changing your lifestyle completely, not cutting out calories for the short term.

    Good luck to you…and your blog.

    • Thanks for your good wishes. I do have (and blog about) annual physicals.

      Oh – and most “lifestyle changes” tend to be just as lifechanging long-term as diets. Yes, if you develop a passion for hiking or yoga it will change your physique, but you may just get stronger not thinner!

  3. “And you’re dead-on about dieting. Weight loss is about changing your lifestyle completely, not cutting out calories for the short term.”

    Wow, way to miss the point…

  4. As a dieter-turned-disordered eater-turned-binger-turned-frustrated and unsatisfied with the explainations I’m getting from the medical and weightloss communities…cheers! This is exactly what everyone should be reading! Wish it was that easy to change my mindset, but at least that’s a goal worth working towards (rather than temporary weightloss). :)

  5. First, I love this blog. I think it’s fills a real need in the public discourse to show that not everyone who weighs X must be disabled in some way. So, what I’m about to say is utterly OT, but you’ve hit a nit I just can’t help but pick

    Albert Einstein once defined insanity as “Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

    Though often attributed to Einstein I don’t think there are actually any good citations to prove he said this. Moreover, if he DID say it, quoting it to shore up a point is still a bad idea, because it was quite likely a derisive comment about quantum physics and in that case he was, with all due respect to him, wrong. One of the tenets of quantum is that if you do the same thing over and over often enough you will, in fact, occasionally get a different result. Or to use Einstein’s own poetic language, God does, indeed, roll the dice.

    • I actually got that from a therapist who was trying to get me to take a step back and realize that I didn’t have to keep playing the same games with my mother.

      Maybe I should credit the therapist? Of course I’ve also seen it attributed to Rush Limbaugh.

  6. Hah! That’s fantastic, Rush it is!

    I’ve actually seen it used extensively in AA and Al-Anon and do think that in cases where a person is repeating behavior hoping that someone else will change it’s a great reminder that it probably ain’t gonna work out like we hope. It’s just that every time I see it I also see Richard Feynman explaining how sometimes you do the same thing and like magic something totally different actually happens :-)

  7. [...] is plenty there that most people can do at any weight.   Given that most people can’t make big, permanent changes to their weight, I’ll be focusing on [...]

  8. Just wanted to stop in, say “hello,” and let you know I think your blog is great. Yay!

  9. [...] you know what?  Being really fat doesn’t make diets any more effective in the [...]

  10. [...] population-wide effects do not necessarily hold for individuals.  There’s also the fact that repeated dieting / weight cycling often leads to weight gain in the long term; I don’t think height has an analog to yo-yo’ing your weight [...]

  11. Oooh, that “Dietary Therapy for Obesity: An Emperor with No Clothes” is a new one to me. Looking forward to it — thanks :)

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